In days like these, with so many enhancements and vulnerability, it is not a shock that kids are getting more and more spoiled toddlers. Sometimes, even the ones who cannot talk, are talking in other ways to let you know if maybe they are starting off on the wrong side of the track.
There could be several reasons why a kid is spoiled and surprisingly, some of them (and at times, most of them) involve parents and leniency. Once, your kids as started off on that track, it becomes very difficult to control them later on, especially in their teen years, when they cannot hide it anymore.
Look Out For The Actions
There are certain aspects that get ignored by the parents and might add up to the list of reasons as to why your toddler is being impatient and might need more structure.
There are some actions that might give an idea to your kids about ways of life and the ground rules. First of all, when you feel guilty and overcompensate for things to your children, they think it is how it is supposed to be. Sure, you might have overstepped at some time and you feel guilty about it, so, if you feel sorry, and let them tackle you emotionally, it might start a series of tantrums within your children and then it will be the same every time (spoiled toddlers).
Toddlers Follow Your Steps
Furthermore, when you lose your consistency, is when your children start to believe that the set rules do not have a rigid foundation and can be mended and broken, as suited. For example, if you have declined a particular request of your children and then they start throwing tantrums and you change your decision and let them have what they want. It makes them believe that there are no set rules and if they show a bit of an attitude, they can have what they want.
When you offer your children to much help, they want to get comfortable with that. For example, if you see your kid in trouble, all you want to do is help them however you can and just make their problem go away. Remember, that they need to do the work as well, or at least a part of it. When they realize that they do not have to bother when you are there, it will make them dependent on you all the time and even for the smallest of matters. They will not work their part, which will leave them disabled in the future (spoiled toddlers).
But, all this can go away, if you take control and are able to love them and teach them both, you can make a better future for kids. Keep an attitude, which shows that you do love them, but if they did something wrong, they need to make it right themselves and work their parts as well. You must not give in and let them control you. For their betterment, you must not give in and make them learn the ways of life with love and strictness both.
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